#Tips about a Successful Relationship

Guys let’s keep it straight when it comes to relationships we all know it gotta be based on trust, loyalty, respect and all other general aspects but what I think honestly about a healthy relationship and don’t judge me on this I too don’t/ didn’t have a perfect relationship but I think it’s based on how the other truly makes you feel worth it! Not by buying you roses or handbags which that could be lovely too but by knowing everything about you, what you like, what pisses you off, noticing the littlest things you make at certain situations, what makes you sob, sacrifices his time, even doing the tiniest things for you or understands if you don’t feel comfortable of him leaving to go out on a night-out with the guys . A relationship is a definition of two people and ‘just’ two people to be able to understand one another of how they feel and to assure each other that they got their backs . It does NOT and I mean not depend on what your friends may think if the guy or girl isn’t allowed to make it out or hang with them. Remember this is your relationship not theirs. Friends are friends, mostly there for a good time but not for a life time. It sucks to hear but it’s true. Friends come and go but relationships are bound to stick around for a life time. Secondly, Do not compare your relationship with another. First of all you dont know what happens behind closed doors. Have you heard that line before ? Well yeh you know what I mean. If your friends partner allowed him/her to go out with their friends while yours isn’t having it, suck it up and stay home ! Spend time with them more or communicate with them assuring you’ll be back at a reasonable hour or resehedule another time to hang out with your friends. Doesn’t mean your friend tells you how great his or her relationship is going, prolly because they are telling you the good parts of their relationship and not the bad. Remember there are also bad sides to every relationship none are perfect so if your partner don’t like your plans , rain check !! (Btw I don’t mean your partner has to do this to you often, she or he has to learn to trust you)

Last tip I should say is Keeping it private (off social media)

And this isn’t want you think by telling people your single and cheat away 🙄🙄. Of course relationships should be telling others you are in a relationship back off I’m not single howeverrr the key to also having a successful relationship is to cut back on posting up social media about the two of you. Sure you’d feel like showing the world how much you love your significant other but showing your personal life to others can trigger them to start hating and can lead to jealousy and could ruin your relationship. Other times you might have an argument with your partner and want to delete a photo you have up on social media of the two of you, that could show your followers that you both are going through a rough patch or something serious happened that they ‘have’ to find out. They would want to get into your business/ your personal life. Relationships should be kept private or at least not to be shown to the whole world.